Category: the Rant Board
Hi all! I never thought this would be true but today I think I have to confirmation that one of my friends, who I already have for five years, is a false one. Well, whenever we arrange to meet, she just calls me shortly before that meeting and says she can't come. Today again: I wanted her to come and let me help her to create an account on here. When she was suppposed to come - she didn't! And she didn't even call me! And me, stupid as I am, I called her! She said she was in her house because her knee was aching. Okay, then I suggested to come to her and we could do it there. Instead of just saying yes, she didn't say anything, and as she did it did not really sound friendly at all!! However then I said what I think of the fact that she never comes to any dates we have, and then we stopped talking. Do you think she is honest?
No, I don't think she's honest. I think she's making excuses, for whatever reason, and just needs to come out and say it. That stinks. I wouldn't want that kind of friend, I'd just ask her what the deal is, and why she's acting like that. That's just me though.
I agree. I will talk to her this weekend I think, anyway. She shall be honest with me about it or she will have one friend less.
I think there could be more to this than meets the eye..so instead of losing the heid, ask her if she has any problems at home or with you..if be prepared for some hard talking but it does sound as if she is using you...
I did not think of being angry and losing my cool. I would just ask her what she really thinks about me, if she has any problems and just make it clear. Anyway, thanks, I will do it that way.
hmm, goblin you are out of line. She is angry because her friend just doesn't pay as much atention to her as it happened before, and is... kind of getting away from this person. Aww, well I would talk to my friends if that was the case as well, don't know about you, but good luck!
Thank you. Well it seems she doesn'T need me, but I want to see what's going on. If this is the case ... well, I don'T need her either!!!!
ines, some of the people are just as wierd as what they are though. just like me with other friends..... nowadays, can't really can believe on people even though she is your friend or maybe she is not. but well, don't get pissed on her. you have zoners! zoners are nicer than her lol smile.
she's a lier and a false friend!
if she was mine i wouldn't even give her a chance!
Maybe she just didn't want to say "I don't like you I think you're a bitch" so she made excuses to avoid having to tell you what she really thinks.
Stargate, I agree, but as she is pretty much the only friend in my school, I will try and give her one more chance.
Well try making more friends. Look for people with similar interests as you. There'll be someone.
Well try making more friends. Look for people with similar interests as you. There'll be someone.
Well there seems to be no point in seeing the problem subjectively eh Lou.I suppose you would like me to apologise for being honest hmmm
Wayne, I tried to make new friends. But there are spreading rumours about me, and nobody wants to be my friend in my f...ing school anymore, so, I can't find any friend!!!!!
Maybe you should find out why they feel the need to do this ..and remember in a way they may feel justified if your two faced behaviour towards me is anything to go by...
I know why. Because I hurt myself. But many others do, too. And some just don't understand that. I stick to my friends in Worcester and to them here on the zone.
well you had better get that seen to hmm hadn't you...
Don'T know what you mean here but well, doesn'T matter.
hmm now we'er feigning ignorance hmm I can see right through your transparent act...
No. This is just something i did not understand, what you said I mean. And other people would have the patience to explain it again.
Ines... I think he is talking about the statement where you said, "Because I hurt myself," back in Post #17 and Goblin responds in the next Post #18 by saying, "you had better get that seen to," and I take it he means seeking professional help for hurting yourself. I could be wrong but that is my take on what is being said. Ines I am not taking any sides here just trying to help explain what I think is being said. Hope it helps. Connie
Okay. Once more: I have seen 6 counsillers in the last few years, for many reasons. And, I have to say: none of them helped. I agree, it was a good idea, but I don't trust counsillers anymore.
You understood me perfectly...
Yeah, after an explanation.
Well, anyway. I will, however, go to a psychological institute and give counsillers one last chance, as I have so many problems and so much pressure. But if they can not help me either, then ... I give up on counsillers.
crap so you intend to stay as you are hmm that's productive..in giving up you have allowed the circumstances to defeat you well done!..I managed to succeed when I was
diagnosed to fail, it can be done you just have to be brave enough to take the chance..